5 Phrases to Help Shut Arguments Down with Your Teen


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We constantly get requests to talk about teen attitude, so we LOVE this post about five phrases you can use to shut arguments down. These help you to stop engaging or feeling the need to negotiate and just move on. Remember, the goal is to raise kids who know how to control their emotions and communicate with others, and these are a great start!

P.S. You may like this article too: Dear Moms, You Don’t Have to Count the Summers Left with Your Teens

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5 Must-Have Phrases Every Parent of Teens Needs to Shut Arguments Down

Sometimes, we get caught in such a bad cycle with our teens that fighting, snarky comments, and door slams ultimately become your standard house language. Teen disrespect becomes the norm, and you wonder if you will ever have a regular conversation with them again.

But here is the thing, and there’s no getting around it: we have to remember that we are the adults, and we have to model the behavior we want to see.

How to Deal with Teenage Backtalk and Disrespect

I’m not sure what the hardest part is about raising teenagers. The answer is probably different for every parent. But I’ve learned something valuable about the hard part of dealing with their hurtful behaviors.

You know, behaviors like angsty teenage backtalk at every interaction, snarky responses to our genuine questions, judgments about our well-meaning actions, and the seemingly overnight transition into someone who appears to despise our very existence.

I’m Giving Permission for My Teens to Stay in Their Childhood for One More Summer

Sure, she has a part-time job, and she’ll volunteer sometimes, and she needs to do a little bit of studying for what’s coming next.

But this summer, I will keep roasting s’mores and making lemonade and setting up movies in our backyard. I will encourage late-night games of Ghost-in-the-Graveyard and offer Popsicles every chance I get. We will bike to the farmer’s market and watch fireworks from the back of our car.

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